i write
in the margins of books now
leaving him cemented the fact that my ideas are important enough
like b sides when they become your favourite songs
i used to wish we could have been friends
now that goes to show
how little he valued who i was
and where i wanted to go
he was somebody who couldn’t bother listening
i like to think that to be hopelessly in love with someone
you would want them in your life
no matter the circumstance, no matter your ego
who would know this would be the true test of all
the proof i didn’t know i needed
how little he loved me in the way he left like it was his idea
he loves bodies and only liked mine
used like an experience
ticked off a checklist
first girlfriend, first heartbreak, friends to feel sorry for you
i’m grateful
i will never wake up one day and realise
i shifted my whole life for the sexist security
of a boy i found kind of boring anyway
im glad we’re not friends anymore
im glad that’s not what love is
disrespect disguised as flattery
i should have been honoured to have someone want me so bad
love me so bad
but hated things i liked
like wearing rings and posting pictures
resented me enough
to do them the minute i left
how little depth to pretend it’s romantic
how men only talk to women if they have a motive
only like photos if they want them
men who do and believe that are
1. incorrect
2. to run away from because
3. they love the patriarchy or worse
pretend it doesn’t exist
he still doesn’t follow his mother on instagram
when i stepped away i saw the similarities in how he treated her
to how he treated me
i used to think that idea was crazy
but i’m not crazy and neither is she
he always sucked at playing connect the dots
thank god i’m not listening to the same songs he listened to with the girl before
back to her and never back to me
it’s funny how
the only way he would realise this is about him
is if i put his name in the title
disclaimer: this isn’t about one person in particular it’s about those who are afraid to look at anything too deeply when it inconveniences them in anyway
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